Seems like forever since Betsy had a good date. A friend recently mentioned going out on fifty dates this summer and now that’s become a personal goal. Forty-seven more to go!
I went to dinner with a man I’d met almost a month ago while on vacation. We didn’t exchange information initially but we ran into each other recently and this time, we both gave up the digits. Our initial conversation was almost 1 ½ hours and good too! We hung up because the hour grew late and we both had to go to work the next day. The funny thing is my sister was at my house and I told her he would have a maximum of twenty nights & weekend minutes. If I couldn’t extricate myself form the conversation at that point, I would give her a sign to call me so I could click over (knowing it was her) then tell him I had to go. Lol. I could have just cut the conversation short but my sister and I both found the latter scenario more funny.
Anyway, I never gave her a smoke signal. Our conversation was intelligent, witty, sarcastic, humorous and completely engaging. I could only hope that our date would be the same.
I was fashionably, but unintentionally late. The brother showed up thirty minutes early, which made his wait an hour. My bad. From the moment we saw each other though, we chatted it up! He looked a little different in his chocolate brown suit; the other times were social settings and he was getting his drink and two step on. I made a slick comment about having to walk around the car to open my own door. Best let him know to step up his chivalry. LOL. Anyhoo, dinner was amazing…not the food, but him. He’s attractive and intelligent and there was this ease between us. Sometimes you go on a date with someone and it is flatline (see previous post) and other times, it's pure lust; this was more intimate like a walk in the park holding hands or a foot massage (Betsy LOVES those).
He drove me home and we spent another hour talking in his car. I liked it. He sent a message when he arrived home and then again this morning. I really liked that. Whatever is brewing between us isn’t the wildfire feeling I described in the previous post; it’s more of appreciation and adoration. Hmmm…to be continued.
Anyone else had a good date lately…ever? Lol. Share here…
Lata Lovelies,
-Betsy “Baller” Ice
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2 comments:
I want to know who this man is.
You told me you had a headache an was going to bed, last night.
Yeah...whateva!
(note: if you are the guy she's dating, please don't pay attention to this. I am just kidding. lol)
Wow a good date? It was my last one. My date and I had shy yet crazy synergy. Our conversation had layers of intelligence, sitcom-like dialogue, and playful hand touches with some rubbing of her calf muscle under the table. We ordered each others meal and shared. She had this blue lemonade and I had some Absolut Citron lemonade mix. We went to the ice cream shop for cones. We sat down at the bench and watched the waves of the water roll by. It was a beautiful with an even more beautiful lady.
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